Soul on Fire Retreat


Soul On Fire Retreat with Stacie-Perron Smith of SPS Coaching was a wonderful experience. 

I was invited to present a healing drum session in the afternoon.  Thus, Drum Vibrations!

There were 11 women and all very receptive to the healing and stress-reducing power of the drum.

Theme Song

Soul on Fire Retreat - Theme Song

i will discover the flame within me
 i will uncover what lights my life
 i will release all that holds me back
 i will ignite my souls fire tonight

we will discover the flame within us
 we will uncover what lights our life
 we will release all that holds us back
 we will ignite our soul's fire tonight

we have discovered the flame within us
 we have uncovered what lights our life
 we have released all that holds us back
 we have ignited our soul's fire tonight

Soul Fire, Soul Fire, Soul Fire


Women’s Circle Ritual Handbook Launches!


Free Download March 2018

When I became a watchful member of the organization, never in my wildest dreams would I have expected to be a contributor to a collaborative project with 30+ facilitators around the globe.  Yet, it happened. 

My mom always said, ‘be careful what you wish for, it may come true.’  And, it did. 

To be a part of a collective group of women offering knowledge, wisdom, and heartfelt sacred rituals to be shared around the world with other women was like a ‘pinch me’ moment.  Leaving a legacy, passing it on, loving life — that tag I’ve used at the end of my emails .. .that tag line was manifesting and happening. 

The purpose of this book of rituals was to allow those of us already gathering in circles to share and to teach other women the delight and importance of returning to the ways of our ancestors — consciously and with intention.  It is an offering to all women who want to gather together in circles, but really don’t know where to start.  With this book of rituals, they can start right at the beginning.  They can gather a few friends or they can use them personally … all they need to do is open the pages and the rituals are there … any ritual a woman might want … all laid out … step by step ….


For a short time, the Women’s Circle Ritual Handbook is FREE for download.  Each of the collaborators streamed it out to all of their friends and community and asked them to do the same.  The ripple effect will be amazing. We will Rise Up and we will Unite in Circle and with Ritual.

I am so excited to be a part of this handbook and to offer my ritual on page 119 – Gathering at the Well. 

Please Download now:   Women’s Circle Ritual Handbook



Enters The Queen: Purposeful and Passionate


Enters the Queen,

The Queen Crowning / Coronation Ceremony took place on 11/4/17.  Eight beautiful women stepped over and through the threshold into a new Queen stage of life.  Embracing the Queen Archetype is purposeful and passionate.

Each Queen created her own Crown for the occasion.  Each Queen gifted another woman a small altar token. Each Queen shared an appetizer. Each Queen created their Time Capsules to be opened next year to review the Queen’s Intention Statement.

We all were anointed and received our Queen name …. which was derived and discovered during a meditation before our Ceremony.  We discussed the different archetypes of Maiden, Mother, Queen, and Crone … we were ready.

Through the Gold Streaming Curtain we entered and took our places.  Sally and Marilyn took turns anointing and crowning us …. 

With such deep ceremony, we had to lighten up a bit … Bubbles!!!

So blessed to provide this ritual and ceremony to women interested in embracing this special stage of life and embracing their life passage.

Wonderful to have witnesses, to be seen and heard in a collective community of awakened women.

We stepped in from the South (Mother Archetype) and out through the North (Queen) and crossed the Threshold of Flowers of Life into our new intentional consciousness.

Long Live The Queen!



All Good Things Must Never End – Awakening Series #4-#6


Hello Goddesses,

I know in my heart that  even though our Awakening the Inner Divine Feminine Series has come to an end, that the portals of deep wisdom and discovery were opened and will now continue to bloom.

This was my first series that I facilitated.  Even though I am experienced with weekly and monthly events, they do not always follow a program structure like this one did.  I must say that it does make a difference.  We all became very trusting and interested in the impact the information had on us individually and collectively.  We shared deeply, we ventured into new territory, we questioned our belief system, and we trusted the process.

We had a great time really connecting with the Elements of Fire, Water, Earth, Air, and Spirit as we molded clay goddesses in sacred ceremony.

We learned a threading technique that connects our multi-faceted feminine lives and energies.

We walked through a Re-Membering process that deepened our understanding of ourselves and our core value.

Within it all, we celebrated, laughed, cried, read, we created, and shared stories.  We danced, we drummed, we sang, we cheered, and we hugged in connection.

Such a wonderful program by Lisa Michaels.  I hope to do it again soon.  As for now, we are all preparing for Thanksgiving and the Winter Solstice.  

I’ll be checking in again soon.

In the meantime, continue creating sacred living ceremony for yourselves.  M


Module #3 – Awakening the Goddess Within



The weeks are flying by and the goddesses are AWAKENING. 

The level of bonding, sharing, and deepening is only possible in this circle we create together.  

We ALWAYS smudge before entering and crossing the threshold to the circle space.

Each Goddess Member receives her candle (usually battery for safety sake) to set on the altar as she enters the sacred space.

When taking their seat within the space, they select a Goddess Oracle Card and sit in meditative silence with the focus on the message coming from the card as they await the entire circle of women to enter and hold space.

The music playlist selection is gathered over days, weeks, months of finding those illuminating rhythms that open our hearts and light up our inner wisdom in full glory.  Music is always playing

We begin with deep breathing and a short meditative journey …. a quick writing of our personal intention and our essence we bring to the circle that night.

We use our talking stick as we voice our names bringing us present into the center of the circle.


New teachings are shared, connecting with the goddesses, and the intention of the nights gathering is clarified and discussed.

Dance? Yes, we dance, drum, move, and chant.  We activate our inner fire and prepare our physical container for all it is receiving and holding for us.

Closing is always bittersweet as we embody our information and release all that no longer serves, and step back over the threshold with the knowing that we are different in many ways and the same in so many also.  

We socialize a bit, and sometimes celebrate birthdays, but mostly we are grounding before returning to our daily life … holding special and close to our hearts, the deep nature of our circle and the authentic ways of women.

Our circle is magical!

We can no longer exist without our circle of women, our tribe, our courage, our support, our side-bys in life.

Until we meet again. Aho!


Bearing Witness to Myself


This is really an old ‘About’ Page…but I felt that I wanted to hold onto it and capture my thinking and my flow.  So, I’m posting it here on my blog as a holding place for bearing witness to my journey.

Hello! My name is Marilyn Ashe Wilson. I am a Conscious Connector, Feminine Adviser and Guide, and Student of the Divine Heroine’s Journey to Self. I am committed to serving the Florida First Coast community and beyond bringing a variety of circles and events that nourish your mind, body, and spirit and allowing you to bring your life into full bloom.

I founded Flower of Life Ceremonies to provide sacred events, ceremonies, and nature-based ritual gatherings for women to connect and deepen as they hear the call to bloom in their own lives.  The Flower of Life is a sacred geometry design; and, to me, it shows the overlapping circles in life emanating from a strong center.  Each flower petal has its own beauty and worth, just as all of our many parts and experiences form our beautiful life bloom.  The discovery of those petals and the beauty of the scent and blossom is my journey and the journey that I share.

It all began with a simple Drum.  A Circle. A Heartbeat.  A Seed.

A drum journey — the call to overcome grief and soften the energy around me as I grieved the death of both of my parents within six months of each other.  I reached out to a small meditative drum class at The Players Community Senior Center… placed my hand on the drum and was immediately transported to the sacred space within my heart.  The primal heartbeat was transcending, healing, and inspiring as I came to grips with my pain and saw how gathering in community, with the drum as the gathering tool, healed my spirit … thus, allowing my body and mind to do what they do naturally – heal.  Yes, I found that our bodies heal, if we allow it and create the time and space for it to do its work.

One thing led to another; and soon, I began creating and facilitating drum workshops and women’s drum circles to share this amazing modality with others.  Those circles morphed, and so did I.  I wanted more of the same feeling … and, all the time. 

With my background in event coordinating and recruiting, I blended events and people….offering sacred space to interact in ways that brought us together, taught us how to trust, be mindful of our authentic purpose, and step into our lives with the firm support of other women holding space for us in community.

Once the creative portal is opened using the drum (a basic and simple tool), the universe begins filling us up with ideas and inspirations.  That’s what happened to me, anyway!

I began signing up for trainings and certifications to expand my knowledge so that I could, in turn, bring those teachings back to my community.  I am now a Trained Drum Circle Facilitator, Certified HealthRHYTHMS Facilitator, Sound Healing Practitioner, Reiki Practitioner, Yoga Nidra Teacher/Guide, LifeCycle Celebrant and Ceremony Officiant/Minister, and a Priestess of Ceremony.  All of these spiritual offerings bring different energy to each circle and ceremony ….. taking all of us on a journey inward.  A journey of discovery.  This combination allows me to create opportunities to gather women in circles of harmony, where elevating consciousness and deepening their spiritual path is the intention and focus.

As a Conscious Connector of women in ceremony, I see the importance of the collective consciousness and the strength of purpose acquired in these circles. The link created between body, mind, and spirit when women are seen and witnessed by other women, is the full bloom of life that we all seek.

It all seems like a divine path to me as I look back …. being raised in a military family and seeking community FIRST and FOREMOST as my family moved to each new City and State every few years.  I instinctively knew the importance of connection and the unifying nature of community.  As a woman, I missed having long time friends and soul sisters …. so building a strong and lasting community of women is not a real surprise – it is the way I bloomed.  Our life path and our seeds are always there for us … we just don’t always see it when expected. 

The idea of ceremony and ritual was instilled in those early years as a young girl educated in the Catholic faith and as a Navy dependent. Both rely heavily on ceremony, ritual, and pomp! It definitely brings a depth to any life passage or celebration.The feeling of belonging to a larger group and community, where there are similar values and like-minded focus, link us together as one; and that is my driving force. There was and is a nostalgic thread of my life, seeded early and deep. That connection, that unifying feeling is the reason for my ongoing commitment to creating community and leaving legacy. When ritual and ceremony are added to any life event, it remains in our memories forever. Marking passages, life transformations, and transitions is something we need more of in this world.

As life would have it, after years of travel and four children, I settled in Jacksonville, Florida bringing along with me, the cultural flavors of Hawaii, Haiti, Puerto Rico, Key West, and the cutting edge creativity of the California coastline.

Since my emphasis is on the importance of community, I continue to build that bridge between isolation and connectedness for women by forming circles, workshops, seminars and supportive environments to align our hearts. My global outreach begins within the local beaches and Jacksonville area, while mentoring with many female leaders from California and beyond. Our touch, our hearts, and our attention have a ripple effect that reaches over the land, more than we even know. That is my calling!

I believe that life is like a garden. It is our job to seed and nurture our mind, bodies, and spirits so that we can enjoy the full bloom of our lives. Leaving a legacy of memories is the key to my passion and commitment.

I believe we Live it, Love it, and Pass it On!

My commitment is to sharing my seeds, energy, and gifts to support women, so that we are seen and heard; witnessed on our path to discovery. In this way, our life energy is on a continuum of giving and receiving, and realizing that we are all one in the universal language of rhythm.  The flower is seeded, nurtured, blooms, and reseeds … just like our life.  We Gather our seeds, We Express through nurture, We Flow like a flower in the breeze, and We Deepen on our inner journey, leaving that legacy to those that follow.

Below are just a few of the many types of circles and ceremonies we create at Flower of Life. Each one of them is designed to form a safe and healthy space and community for women to step into their own garden of life, creating their own beautiful life blossoms, and enjoying the juicy new bouquets formed by the attention and intention to sacred growth. 





  • Sistership Circles
  • Full and New Moon Rituals
  • Interactive Community & Sacred Drumming
  • Crystal Singing Bowl Meditative Gatherings
  • Divine Sleep Yoga Nidra
  • House and Office Blessings
  • Healing Ceremonies with Drum and Sound



Join me, Let’s connect!

As we Gather, we Express, we Flow, and we Deepen….
That is the Flower of Life.

In another life (2008-2011)  when co-creating with Lynn Curtin as Blondes Drum 2, we made these 2 CDs of original music.  The first one, I play all percussion and Lynn sings. The second one is a compilation of poem and song performed by both of us … 

Free Link to stream the entire CD, Cut, Colored, & Styled


Pay per song for Pure EnChantment


A Goddess .. An Awakening … A Sharing … A Sacred Connection


Despite Hurricanes, Flooding, Recovery, and Restoration in Florida, the Goddesses gathered in a whirlwind of their own stormy and fashionable energy.  Our six-week Awakening the Divine Inner Goddess Series started with eight (8) women, who didn’t hesitate to invest in themselves and stand in their power and knowledge that circle is our essence.

Module #1 was all about creating the container, activating the physical realm — EARTH — so that we could hold and contain the information we will gather and learn over the next 6 Mondays, and being able to hold space for the many different places in the women’s hearts where this learning will land … where does it find them? where does it land in their heart? where will it take them?

We witness each other — beam back a reflection of love and acceptance — hug in support and knowing.

Thank you to our first group of Awakening Goddesses – Karen Allen, Penny Hughes, Tambra Kipp, Amy Decker, Tracy Duncan (the birthday goddess), Sally Baldwin, with Cindy Diamond and Marilyn Wilson (not shown).


So looking forward to Week and Module #2 … 


No One Falls Through the Cracks in Jax – Red Sand


Priestess Blessings

Another blessing of being a part of the Priestess Community is the wise and helpful knowledge and experience held and offered as gifts to humanity.

During my recent global Priestess gathering, the grandmother’s circled to discuss ways to serve.

A friend mentioned the Red Sand Project.

The Red Sand Project raises awareness for Sex Trade and Human Trafficking victims around the globe.

It resonated deeply with me for many personal and humanitarian reasons.  I do live at the beach and we resonate with sand and sex.  Who knew that Florida, my State, was #3 in the Nation for Human Trafficking issues, arrests, and conditions.  Jacksonville, my city, is one of the highest in these crimes.

Thus, my mantra – ‘No One Falls Thru the Cracks in Jax’

This is our girls we are talking about … future Priestesses, Goddesses, Mothers, Wives …. what the heck?

Yes, it involves all genders, ages, and races, but of course women are the majority.

So, with that information, I decided to do a Red Sand Project Installation here in Jacksonville. 

After many rain and weather cancellations, we finally we able to gather at our local community center ….

We had a short ceremony and information was shared about trafficking and modern day slavery … then little pouches were distributed to everyone.


They filled the cracks as a metaphor for losing people in the cracks of politics, social injustice, ignorance, etc. and then we sang and chanted blessings.

The purpose is to stay alert, stop, look, and listen to what you are doing and where you are in relation to others.  See others, talk to others. Ask. Protect our children

A lovely way to unite …. purposeful and heart warming.  Even the children became involved.  They will remember.




Rites of Passage – a 60 Priestess Ceremony




It’s all about timing!

Allowing the Priestess Oversoul, the Universe, and the Winds of Connection seem to be the perfect creation and ideal ceremonies.

While traveling with my husband … Franky Baby …. on the west coast of Florida, I received a call from my Priestess Partner that she was interested in doing a Rite of Passage for her 60th year.  She wanted to do it while vacationing at the Beach in Siesta Key, Florida.  Well, wouldn’t you know it, but we were on the way there and planning to stay close by that evening anyway.  Check!

Gather sacred items and tools for sacred ceremony! Check!

Step into the energy that Bette had begun creating … a circle of shells, a circle of energy.

Use the floral arrangement prepared for her birthday gift by my daughter-in-law, Casey Rogers, for sprinkling and delighting. Check!

Adorn ourselves with head wreaths made by Bette the night before. Check!

Ceremony … Sacred Sound … Heart Sharings …. Check!

Rite of Passage in honor of a major life transformation.  Beautiful!

Thank you Bette for inviting me to participate and bring my sacred gifts.


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